True Love

Heyya gals...Happy Monday,yeah.Kat sini baru 11pm.I just came back from our Mommy-Daughter's Day out with Kyra.We went to Vue to watch Shrek 3D.3D memang mahal,but I think its worth it..Ala,once a while,kan.. For both of us,I paid 16 pounds..which I think quite reasonable..dapat coupon discount lagi for the next visit..which will be for Eclipse,lah kan..kan..:)..I love the cinema here because you can choose your seat..macam kat Malaysia,time we purchased the tix,kita pilih rows semua,kan..Here takde,1st come 1st serve..Your tix memang takda seat number,so sukati you nak duduk mana..If you want the best seat,datang early and cop ur spot..:)

Overall,the movie is great!Banyak betul pengajaran...Yang paling I suka sekali part Shrek cakap,"you'll never know what you got until you lost it".Very true,indeed...Sometimes us human suka take things for granted,kan..

Today mari kita bicara about True Love..rasa2nya betul tak if I say that not all of us are fortunate in finding our True Love..I believe ada married couple yang bukan true love pon.Ada yang kahwin not because they love each other but for other reason.Some,kahwin because semua sepupu sepapat and adik-beradik dia dah kahwin,some pulak,parents yang carikan,some sebab nak anak,some sebab material and pangkat..Yang paling banyak sekali is Kahwin because frust dengan ex masing2...

I called this an escapism.Lagi2 kalau both,husband and wife bercinta sakan dengan orang lain,last2 putus...This kinda scenario yang bila after 10-20 tahun,terjumpa balik ex tetiba chenta lama berputik kembali..Tak caya??Baca ni:-

KISAH BENAR

I have a friend,he's a married guy..ada anak..,works somewhere in KL..Takleyla reveal specifically,kang dia terjumpa my blog,mampoih I!..But this is a true story la...This Guy,I called him B,dah kahwin,3-4 tahun jugak,ada anak dah..B nie dulu pernah frust,terus jugakla dia frust dengan this girl..Lama dia dengan this girl,almost 7 years kot.Then dah putus,terjumpa dengan this girl,I namakan Y.Y nie pulak bercinta dengan Uni lover dia,tapi parents halang,so putus dengan ex dia jugaks after 5 years gitu bercintun.Then takdir menemukan si B and Y.Tak lama pon berkawan,dalam 3 bulan,then kelam kabut nak kahwin..I think both of them nak isi ruang kosong yang ditinggalkan ex memasing..Which I called escapism tadi.Both of them nie memang totally different..si B suka sports,Y tak leh layan langsung..So at 1st,I pon taktau la napa both of them got married at the 1st place..Both of them memang layan each other macam kawan aja..takda kemesraan,tau..B balik office memang akan buat his own things,Y pulak dah tido dengan anak-anak..Y memang tak masaklah,so B akan tapau apa2 kat luar..B dengan Y takda la nak lepak sesama then story and gossips pasal office ke hape ker..Pendek kata,B memang tak share apa-apa dengan si Y..Memang tak sekepala la..but tak bergaduh tau..neutral la..memang aman,pasal nothing nak gaduh,dah tak cerita apa-apa,kan..Penah dengar tak lagu Michael Bolton.."How can we be lovers if we can't be friends"..How to live happily laki bini if you can't even share anything,dahla nothing in common,selera makan pon lain-lain,nak borak pon tak boleh..Si Y nie memang claim her marriage bahagia la..but I know B tak bahagia..I rasa B and Y kahwin not for the right reason..Now,B told me there's someone in his office yang cared for him,can be his friends,can share semua....    I didnt see its coming as B memang husband and father yang responsible,tetiba ada affair pulak dahh dengan officemate!.See,when you got married for the wrong reason,akan terjadilah benda yang tak sepatutnya dalam marriage...I tak hairan if B fell in love dengan his officemate as I think dia dengan Y bukan True Love pon,but more to nak hilangkan kesunyian and nak ada teman..And who knows maybe B baru jumpa his True Love which that officemate,kan..Seriously,dengan I pon celaru sama,kesian kat B and Y.Y memangla tak tau apa-apa..as husband dia kerja,bagi duit macam biasa semua,which the only things yang Y concern.Y concern sangat pasal gaji B sampai dia tak nampak dah what's happening behind her back.Pada Y,asalkan B bagi duit every month,makan pakai dia and anak cukup,thats it.I pon tak taulah what's gonna happend..

Ok,habis Kisah benar.Pengajaran yang boleh dikaitkan dengan cerita Shrek is,bila kita dah jumpa our True Love,cepat2lah menikah,make him/her yours...jangan nanti dah terlepas,then you ended up with the wrong person,then jadilah benda-benda yang tak sepatutnya..banyak hati akan terluka...1 more thing,if you frust ke haper,takyahlah desperate sangat terus nak cari pengganti..cool down dulu,kenal diri you 1st.Bila you kelam-kabut nak cari pengganti,you'll ended up dengan someone yang you tak cinta pon,more to lust,more to don't wanna be alone..Hopefully all my dear readers nie dah jumpa True Love masing2,yer...I did for sure..:)