assalamualaikum...jangan marah eh,tajuk agak bahaya di situ...But I'm still gonna write bout it jugak...Sebabnya banyak sungguh menda yang happened around me but I tak sempat nak blog bout it..Banyaknya pengalaman orang lain yang I kutip..So,maybe kita boleh sharing is caring kat sini kan...lalalalalala
Ok,Dia dalam konteks nie boleh jadi husband korang ke..boyfriend korang ke..I taktau nak komen sangat sebab belom ada pengalaman..cheh,belom...Nauzubillah...:P Harap-harap tak encounter this kinda problem la kan..
Ok,katakanlah....BF ke husband korang kan..kantoi in terms of:-
1.TENGAH DATING
Dia call cakap dia outstation ke atau balik lewat pasal meeting..So,terpaksalah korang naik bas ke,taxi ker tumpang kawan..Katernya dia takleh ambik..busyyyyyyyyyy...Pastuh tengah-tengah korang dalam taxi..tunggu traffic lights..nampak pulak dia tengah sedap-sedap suap pompuan lain makan Tutti Frutti ha..Hangen tak hangen??? Jawab.....
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a. Jerit kat pakcik taxi "Stop,pakcik"! Turun pastuh pergi serang dia...Kalau nak lagi best,ambik mangkok Tutti Frutti tuh,telangkop atas kepala pompuan tuh...Kejinya haku :P
lalalalalalala..
b.Buat-buat tak nampak and sedapkan hati sendiri..Mungkin minah siot yang dia suap-suap froyo tu sepupu adik sedara nenek angkat dia..:P
c.Lepak dulu..dalam hati.."Jap lagi balik,siap lah kau..Kalau tak tido luar,aku nak hangkut kain baju dengan anak-anak balik kampong"
2.KANTOI SMS
Dia memang ada banyak phone..alasan dia,untuk office lain,untuk korang lain,untuk business lain pulak...Satu hari,tengah dia dok kalut-kalut...tertinggal satu handphone kat umah...Yang korang pon,macam kera dapat bunga kan..Tunggu lagi tak terjah..Mesti TERJAH punya kan? yelah,nak make sure mamat tuh honest ke tak kan...Tapi ada jugak pompuan yang tega cakap "Aku takkan check hp laki aku,sebab aku percayakan dia 100%"..Aku nak dia ada privacy..Hamboi cik kak..Meh sini nak cakap...Takda maknanya percaya 100%...Never trsut anyone 100%..sapa ponlah..Kalau ikut haku punya cogankata..ialah "trust No One'..cheh,cilok dari citer X-Files padahal :P
Ok,sambung..Dalam sms tu tulis segala mak nenek,sayang la,cinta lah,darling la,rindu lah..Hadoi...Padahal kat korang,sikit punya kemut dia nak ucap kata-kata chenta..Kalau suruh dia ambikkan air pon,dia kata "Pegila ambik sendiri,awak takda tangan ke" Memang siottttt kan...Tapi,dengan aweks..bulan bintang dia nak serah...Mengong!
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a.Forward SMS tu kat phone korang,sebagai bukti..kotla lepas nie dia delete at least ko boleh tunjukkan bukti ko pulak kan...
b.Call dia la la tu jugak,suruh dia balik asap sebab tak sabar nak bersemuka.
c.Call no pompuan tu and tanya dia apa hubungan dia dengan BF ke laki korang then bagitau yang korang ni bini dia...
Sebenarnya menda-menda kat atas dah pernah terjadi dekat sekeliling haku..Memang pedih dengar diorang nie cerita bila kena two-timed..Sakit hati weh...Mula lah rasa bodoh,rasa low sangat..Apalah salah aku..Aku ni tak cukup kiut ke?Hidung aku senget ke? Keje aku tak cukup best ker?
Sebelum korang nak menyeksa diri korang lagu tuh,meh aku cakap.lelaki nie kadang takde bersebab pon dia main kayu 8....Bukan 3 aja,8 teruss aku kasik...Sebab dia memang susah nak cukup dengan 1..Sebab tu dia boleh kahwin 4..So,kalau korang berada dalam situasi kat atas tuh..bawak-bawaklah bersabar..Sebab bukan something wrong dengan korang..But dengan dia kot..sebab tak pandai appreciate awek or bini sebaik korang..kan?
Aku mestilah sokong korang..sebab aku pon pompuan..:)
Kalau korang tangkap dia curangla kan..korang nak bagi peluang kedua ke tiada maaf bagimu?Kalau korang bagi 2nd chance,,lepas tuh korang akan rasa curiga tak...Korang ada pengalaman tak..takpun orang lain punya cerita..Jomlah share...Sharing is Caring,maaaaa!
Apa-apa pon,kita sesama pompuan,try lah yer jangan kacau hak orang lain..tapi kalau dah jodoh korang..nak buat cemana kan...Siapa yang penah kena two timed nie,sabar byk2..No worries...Ok,Girl Power...Hugs n kisses..
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Kak meen darling,yes,i had this experience which just happened quite recently.
We were dating for a year.then,out of the blue,he said nk break off.we didnt hv any prob,before.
After broke off,i found out,the major reason,he is seeing another girl which he just got to know for few days.
Last night,i watched "the good guy" movie,which reminded me abt this silly guy.how he approached me earlier,how romantic was him,how silly was i,get hooked with him.
Yes,i couldn't agree more,k.meen.TRUST NO ONE!
He said sorry,n told me,he was just a CONFUSED guy.
Gile ke,baru knl that girl few days,dh confused?
I reckon,other ppl at the age of 25-28 are planning ahead for future,right?
Same goes to us.but since,he "suddenly" got confused,so thats it.
Alhamdulillah,it happened b4 we get hitch.
Allah knows best,kan kak meen?:)
I feel relieved.thx so much kak meen!:)
Love to kyra !
kakak... i'm maried and preggy our first baby now... susah nya nak hidup sekarang nie i rase... my hubby lie on me he got someone else.. and he said that i tak layan die cause i mabuk n i ngada2 je mabuk... sedih nye x tahu ape nk kate... but i rase i perlu terus kan hidup... i perlu teruskan hidup untuk sikecil yg kat dlm nie... buat pe nk tunggu klu org x pandai hargai kan,,,, so i move from the house... try untuk hidup sendiri sekarang... but i ngaku susah sekarang tp i yakin later everything will be ok kan kakak... :'(
Hi Rina dearie,
I'm sorry you have to go thru that kinda experience..memang pedih especially bila kita really-really love him..kan..
But..its his lost la...Always stay positive and take things easy..He up there dah plan semua for us..Like I said before,we will kiss a few frogs before we found the the prince...the right ones..Insy..you will get the better one..By the way?Did you forgive him and take him back?
Hi anon,
You know what dear,my fren punya kisah sebijik dengan you..time dia tgh mabuk preggie,his husband layan disco and karaoke..and met this waitress..and fall in love with her..
Yang my fren nie,tido atas sofa almost everyday tunggu hubby dia balik pukul 3,4 pagi...Then one day,husband dia bawak balik that girl and both of them pujuk dia mintak she let him kahwin dua..gila tak?
Then,my fren minta cerai and dah remarried now..
My dear,patutnya dia simpati dgn u,bukan jadikan u alasan atas kecurangan dia..Dia bukan suami yg bertimbang rasa..think rationally,and make the best decission for u and the baby..
If you need to talk,I'm willing to listen..Hugs..:)
Thx for the advice,kak meen dear:)
Nopeeeee, we did not reconcile.
Tapiiiiiii, takot jgk if later he pujuk2 ke kan.for now,i blocked every medium that he could reach me.x payah la nk tnye kabar ke ape ke.
Org dh jage,layan kau elok2,after a year,what u bls?
Pastu sebok nk tanye kabar plak??!
I guess,he's in love with the new girl.
life is alws fair.what u gv,u get back :)
It is indeed true, k.meen.
Allah is great,He alws has a great plan for us:)
May Allah permudahkan semua urusan kita,dunia akhirat.amin inshaAllah
To anon,stay strong,dear.
We are on all ears,if u need someone to talk to:)
Thx kak meen!
Love!:)
kak meen and rina thanx... :'(
i dunno what to say... i really need someone to talk but i dont know where to start...
that girls calls me and said the will enggage this hari raya and she will make sure i not going to be his wife after this... i just cant say any word while the girl ugut and cakap macam2.... he never call me and never say anything...
kakak and rina plsss doakan i tabah yer... opismate sume keep asking why i nampak upset... none of them know that i have problem... i just dont want them to know...
Anon dear, u really need some1 to talk to.jgn pendam sorg.in ur condition, u really need moral support from friends n family. Dont trouble urself,dear.
If u feel to let it out,u can drop me an email dear :) Sarina221(at) gmail (dot) com
Kak meen, tumpang satt naaa kak.time kaseh byk kak meen ku :) hehe
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